On Wednesday, the 45-year-old reality star's beau first announced their split via social media blaming his own insecurities for their split.
But now reports have surfaced that the breakup was a very dramatic one, with TMZ reporting the couple had a massive fight while on a romantic trip to Mexico over the weekend.
A source close the Real Housewives Of Atlanta star told the website that after the couple started fighting, Kenya locked herself in the hotel room but her 28-year-old personal trainer now-ex kicked the door in.
While things did not turn physical, the website's source claims Matt repeatedly called Kenya a 'bitch' and 'c**t'.
As their flight was already booked, the pair flew home on the same plane but Kenya moved seats
Then, the site said, not wanting a scene at baggage claim, Kenya left but the pair once again started fighting when Matt brought her bag over to her home, leading them to call it quits for good.
While Kenya did not confirm exactly what had occurred, she took to Instagram and Twitter to express her feelings.
As the Instagram has since been deleted just part of the message appears on her Twitter: 'Love is never aggressive, hurtful, threatening, vindictive or accusatory nor distrustful. Love…'
Her now ex beau also said distrust was a problem in their relationship, not because of cheating but because of his own insecurities.
While Matt has since made his Instagram private, Starcasm was able to grab the lengthy posts beforehand.
The young trainer explained: 'Looking back I blame myself totally, I learned very late in the relationship that a woman will not trust a man fully if he seems irresponsible or not up to standard in areas of a relationship. If she doesn't feel like she can put trust in a man emotionally, spiritually, financially etc… That will cause a woman to feel resentment and most of all untrusting in her man.'
He continued: 'Because of what he lacks she does not feel like she will be properly protected or served! So the woman will not feel like she can give her all to a man that is unstable or irresponsible in areas of the relationship. Causing her to go inward emotionally.
'I was in denial of my flaws until late in the relationship. It causes me to feel un-trusting in her because I did not feel like I had her FULL love and attention. I didn't realize that I created my own circumstances
'To the men out there. Brothers in particular being a real man is a lot more than just being a strong physical dominating presence and opening doors for her.'
He denied there was any cheating involved: 'In addition just for the record infidelity or cheating was never part of our relationship or one of our problems!!'
When a commenter suggested it was the fact that he makes a lot less than his older ex, the personal trainer said a man should strive to be financial stable for him and his partner.
'I don't mean any disrespect but that's the mindset and the kind of talk that makes Brothers lazy. I hear it all the time that these women are all out for money they want a guy with money!!! Excusing it or calling women evil for wanting a man that has a lot of money sends the wrong message to brothers.
'Basically saying that as long as ''I'm a nice guy I should have smart strong beautiful intelligent woman that has money!!!????'' No sweetie it's 2016 and I live in the United States of America I should just get more money then.!! To all the brothers out there if you're upset about it get more money. Feel insecure? get more money. Tired of the nonsense? get more money. I'm going to go take my own advice now.'
Considering he was on such a roll, Matt also decided to defend Kenya against accusations she immaturely removed his pictures from her Instagram.
'She only took down my pics because it was what I requested. My own immaturity, not hers.'
The could first started dating late last year, with Kenya declaring the couple were in love just a few months ago.
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